Relationships5 Creative Pairings To Treat Yourself for a Solo Valentine’s Day (and Everyday)February 14, 2021If you’re single for Valentine’s Day, you shouldn’t feel left out of this day. I’ve been single for most of my adult life, and Valentine’s... Continue Reading
RelationshipsA New Dating and Relationship Podcast Just for You: Happy Hour Husband HuntingJanuary 22, 2021It all started when my fellow 40-ish never married childfree Black single friend Kina asked out of the blue, how about we do a dating... Continue Reading
Culture, RelationshipsRight Now, I’m Loving (No. 1): From tiny desk concerts to the Celebration of Black LoveDecember 12, 2020Hey there! Starting a new (Saturday) series called “Right Now, I’m Loving”, a revival of sorts of a blog series I did when I was... Continue Reading
RelationshipsDo You Regularly Hug Your Friends?November 20, 2020Where do you stand on regularly hugging your friends? I grew up in a family where regular hugging was not the norm. A highly affectionate... Continue Reading
Relationships7 Date Questions You Can Ask On Date NightNovember 8, 2020I’ve been single for most of my adult life so I have mixed feelings about the whole dating thing – excitement that there might just... Continue Reading
RelationshipsA Sensual Poem: may i feel said heNovember 1, 2020One of my favorite poems is from ee cummings (I love to stylize phrases with using all lowercase so I always liked the look of... Continue Reading
RelationshipsChildless, Dreaming, and Uncertain Of Wanting MotherhoodJuly 8, 2020I’m a almost 39-year old unmarried (gasp!) woman who is childless (double gasp!). My biological clock is ticking along, and I just shrug and go... Continue Reading