If you’re single for Valentine’s Day, you shouldn’t feel left out of this day. I’ve been single for most of my adult life, and Valentine’s Day is by far one of my favorite days of the year. Why? Because Valentine’s Day is a celebration of…

It all started when my fellow 40-ish never married childfree Black single friend Kina asked out of the blue, how about we do a dating and relationship podcast? My response, why not? Months prior we decided to be alittle more proactive in our search for…

Hey there! Starting a new (Saturday) series called “Right Now, I’m Loving”, a revival of sorts of a blog series I did when I was film writing many years back. It’s a list of all the things that have garnered my attention (and devotion) in…

Where do you stand on regularly hugging your friends? I grew up in a family where regular hugging was not the norm. A highly affectionate family we were not, which of course, stayed with me as I got older. It was not until I left…

I’ve been single for most of my adult life so I have mixed feelings about the whole dating thing – excitement that there might just be a perfect imperfect “soulmate” out there for me with perfect answers to my date questions that I stumble upon…

One of my favorite poems is from ee cummings (I love to stylize phrases with using all lowercase so I always liked the look of this poems) called may i feel said he, published in his 1935 collection of work No Thanks. It has been written that may I…

I’m a almost 39-year old unmarried (gasp!) woman who is childless (double gasp!). My biological clock is ticking along, and I just shrug and go about my business. There was a time in my pre-teen to teenager years when I couldn’t imagine my future without…